Thanks Frank, those were some useful words of widsom, wish I ahd access to them sooner this weekend.
Weekend was a complete blow out. As I figured, kids were 'abondonded' Friday night due to "OM's deceased Aunt's freind passing". What a doosey that one is. W claimed the death had just occured before 6pm and that she was on her way to the hospital and wasn't sure when she'd pick the kids up. Long story short, the death occured at about 7am, kids were never picked up and she promissed to pick them up Saturday, never did, then Sunday, never did. W stayed with Om at his place, even called me from there to start a fight.
Found out my youngest son had a been to the principal's office a few times last week due to a 'upset stomache'. Also, older son is being bullied by some kids at school because he's now in a couseling class for kids whose parents are seperated/divorced, and what not.
All attempts to talk civily with W druing the course of the weekend were pointless and just led to more bickering. She claims she hasn't talked with her "lawyer" yet but will certainly do so ASAP.
Wouldn't even drop off her kid's coat and it was in the upper 20's this morning and all the kid has is sweatshirt.
Just going to try and get through this week and keep myself busy and away from her as best as possible. Will have a nice quiet weekend as they're supossed to be going out of town. Kicks off Friday night with a 'happy hour' after work, so that outta refire the GAL aspect of things.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11