Yeah that was the only drawback to the movie, and lots of romantic movies. There is always that stock, "good guy/girl" the one who seems perfect "on paper", who hasn't done anything wrong per se, but there just isn't that 'connection'...
Whenever I see that I cringe a little b/c I wonder if that is what Dan tells himself about me, I am wonderful 'on paper', I SHOULD be great for him, but there isn't that little spark...
I am looking into a new book today. It is called "Too good to leave, too bad to stay", or maybe it is vice versa, can't remember exactly. But anyway the review I read says that being in limboland is toxic to your body/your life. It says it is imperative that you make a decision one way or another. Apparently it leads you through a series of questions to help you determine whether you are focusing on the negative when, with some effort, your relationship could be amazing; or, if you are trying to see the positive in a relationship that will never fulfill you...
Anyone heard of it? Thoughts? I may get it after work tonight and check it out. I previewed it on amazon and read the first couple pages. It sounded even-handed, the author was just as adamant that some people waste their lives thinking about leaving when that same energy could be spent enjoying their marriage, as she spent on people hanging on to something that was already gone...
