{{{marisol}}}} Glad you are back. I know what you are feeling also. I am physically detaching from H, but in my head and heart all day are different scenarios and thinking about him. It is especially tough on the weekends but I am keeping busy but I miss H. does your H send the "ILY's and you are the best" and also the OW -- where was the comment about polite people.
Like you my D15 has no R with her father right now. She has not spoken to him for almost a month. Oldest D is flying in Saturday and being here for Thanksgiving and as of now I think it will be me and my 2 daughters while H is spending it with OW. Very sad especially since H will not see his daughter at X-mas as all. When I was at church yesterday a couple of rows up was a Dad holding his 3 or 4 year old D. She was giggling and kissing him and hugging him and my eyes filled up with tears. How did they go from that to this -- NC with their own kids. But like you I pray for H and I also pray for OW to leave H. I know God is listening to good prayers and hates divorce. Our H's just have to listen and open their hearts again.
But I am working on GAL and really trying to practice DB without my emotions getting involved.
{{{{T2L}}}}}}} {{{{{hugs}}}}}, we are standing with you. You did a wonderful Plan A and now into Plan B it is tough to wait it out while you have been soooo assertive in Plan A. Now go buy paint and do that bedroom you talked about painting. Move move, breathe breathe. I always find painting relaxing and good for the soul. If you want to share -- let us know what your letter said. Hopefully we will be able to use it for future reference. take care. hugs.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
