So, I decided to email H this morning to thank him for the meeting. I wrote: "Hi H, it was good to see you yesterday. Thank you for the invitation to lunch. Beth"
H's reply, "You are welcome. Do you know the name and number of our dentist? "
So does this mean it was not good seeing me? Does this mean I pushed it too much? ARGGG!
I know, I know, no expectations. H was not going to say it back even if he felt it, right?
Something else that bothers me - this is the second time we have had an email exchange (I responded regarding the dentist saying I would look at home tonight for the info, he responds, okay, did not really know where to start. I respond that we found it before, we'll find it again then nothing from him. He did this the last time, too. At the end of the exchange, where there is an opportunity to hit reply and say thanks, he does not do it.
I am not trying to read his mind. Rather, I am trying to "investigate" like Michele recommends in the book, to see if there is something to be gleened from his behavior. Or am I putting too much into something to insignificant? It's just that it is a 180 for him from our past. He would always have replied to me with at least a thanks.
then nothing from him. He did this the last time, too. At the end of the exchange, where there is an opportunity to hit reply and say thanks, he does not do it.