Life In the Rough - Can't find my ball...

[kelaaron]

Yes coffee. We are all having it.

[1hope]

Morning.....finally. Having coffee on the run today.

Too much to do and not enough time to get it done.

[1hope]

The alien actually reappeared last night in the middle of a physical encounter. Boy that was FUN!!!!

Physical encounter as in, like, sex?

I guess I feel better about the fact that my alien also reappeared last night. I have figured out what is causing these latest enounters, but it doesn't make them any easier. Last night he ordered me to get the F out of our house. I ignored him and went upstairs. He slept on the couch and appeared fine this morning. Even kissed me good bye.

[kelaaron]

Yes as in sex.

So what have you figured out? You don't have to share if you don't want to. Sorry he did that but sounds like you stayed calm.

[1hope]

It has to do with his family and the fact that he alienated himself from all of them while his EA was going on. Now whenver anything comes up having to do with the family he gets angry and subsequently takes it out on me. Two of the last three sightings have been because of family things.

I stayed pretty calm with the last one. Part was because I was thinking about your ability to stay calm. The other part was because I am just plain tired of this rollercoaster.

I agree with you. I have gotten off from the ride.

Sorry to hear about your encounter. Guess it's one way to have a little something "strange."

[Babygirl]

morning girlies!!! oh hope, first off so glad you got the first 2 books, i promise you will like them! i got the 4th one friday nite! the twilight movie comes out this weekend YAY!!

wow you got a kiss goodbye this morning, thats something. I have been meaning to share something with my girls about this weekend, and since K brought up sex, its time. so after the wedding recpetion, the dinner, the movie, we went to bed, and H made love to me, I say ML instead of sex for this reason. He actually made out with me during it. he hasnt done that in over a year and a half if not 2 years. when we were done, I had to go the bathroom right away, because I cried. he did hear me and asked me what was wrong, so I was a bad DBer and told him, I said you kissed me you havnet done that in so long, I have really missed it. it was weird.
oh well had to tell my girls and over here its uh less man interupted lol!!!
wow are we all gonna quit the ride?

[1hope]

Baby!!!!!! I am so very happy for you! Yes!

And then he went to church with you the next morning, right? Oh boy, you are getting huge steps from him.

That makes me so happy that my heart is actually skipping a beat. There is no one that deserves it more than you.

Telling him that you like his kisses is not bad DBing I think.

You're supposed to reward him for good stuff.

[Babygirl]

I pray they are steps for him, instead of his past ways of cramming whatever he would give me into the weekends, as he had all week to give oW the part she got. no expectations is the hard part, but I have to keep thinking that way, cause if I feel to much, and he is still doing his thing, I think that crash would be harder than the bomb.

yes huh we all deserve it hope, everyone of us does!!!

[kelaaron]

Isn't it amazing that a simple kiss makes the difference between sex and ML. I don't know if they realize that. Maybe they do. Ok Hope, now I don't feel quite so bad about the other night. A little "strange" huh?

[1hope]

Yeah, strange

I have been doing a lot of thinking lately about how we look at things and the power of our mind. "Reframing" things that might have ordinarily been toublesome to me.

I guess it's taking the ability to look for the positive, up to a new level.