That's the secret Mike, your being yourself and meeting people that like you for you, not some fake you full of lines or telling them what they want to hear. I know a lot of blokes that are players and they might get a lot of ladies, but they are never in relatioships long. The guy out on town they portray might be great, telling them what they want to hear etc, but the real person is not all they've sold themself as.
