Last week during an argument with H, he said that I didn't know OW and should not speak about her that way. In the heat of it, I told him HE didn't know her and that she'd had a boyfriend last year and that the boyfriend had broken up with her she didn't leave him. H appearently called the boyfriend but he didn't tell him EVERYTHING just that they'd been hanging out and partying. OW did tell H that they'd gone to New Orleans for a weekend.
Anyway, as expected, OW said H was with me and she was lonely so he's ok with it. (Hello! I was lonely too but I didn't cheat!!) Also, H had told me that if I'd been the one to cheat that he wouldn't want anything to do with me. But with her it's OK? What gives?
However, I did find out that H was trying to pick up a friend during a party at our home June 2007. So, H is ok with OW's little fling I guess because he's guilty over trying to pick up another woman. H told me to stay out of their and any other woman he is with personal life and to get over it.
I've been hearing that a lot lately. Even my friends are telling me to 'get over it, it's been a year now'.
Also, this past weekend a very dear friend of mine and her H spent the weekend with H and OW and S16. Which hurts me really badly. They all had a grand ole time. They stayed up all night drinking and laughing. H and OW slept until 2 pm. S16 came home an hour before his dad even woke up.
My friend says she's stuck in the middle because our H's are friends. I say that she should tell her H that she doesn't want to spend time with OW but H would be OK. Of course, I didn't tell her that but am I wrong here?
