I am not sure. I did ask her that and she said no. I am the man....whatever that means....I interpreted as saying if you want mommy back you need to work (sorry Forrest). I have a hunch that W although a pretty good communicator is not very open to communicating when the subject matter is a little thorny. That has been my experience in the past and therefore, I am pretty sure that W's attitude to D7 is to suck it up. Incidentally, after my Saturday morning "speech" regardin OM sleeping over when D7 is around, I followed it up this AM. with a nice e-mail (I do not think she found it very nice) outlinimg my concerns as it pertains to D7. Whatever W wants to do when D7 is not around is no longer my concern, however, when she is there, unfortunatelly for W, it is. I also wrote that when i agreed to 5 day 2 day schedule it was for logistical purposes and for some sort of stability for D7...I strongly suggested that she not take that 5/2 for granted especially since the stability factor has been altered. Needless to say no return e-mail or phone call...i am sure she is fuming...the truth hurts sometimes.