My wife and I have been doing an in house separation. We are only 8 days into it but I had a question for others who have done this.
My wife is going through a MLC or life evaluation. She basically wants to have a fun life again and she tells me ILUBNILWU. The first few days were ok, I have been working on GAL and improving myself and not acting jealous, needy, co-dependent, and basically all the things I did in the beginning of her change.
The problem is she seems more determined to play as much as she can with all her free time. To make things worse an employee quit last night from her store so she will have to work allot more and she was in a really bad mood yesterday. Everything I did pissed her off. I guess because she will have less time to play or be more tired.
Has anyone else gone through this? She says she is looking into a counselor but I doubt she is looking too hard. I know the only real things are to GAL and focus on our kids but man does this take a toll on my soul, being a LBS sucks.
