K- your post makes me second guess myself again! I am just so confused and lost, I feel I guess like H to a point. I know I am not confused like him, but I am still lost to an extent. I know know one can tell me when it is time for me to make a stand. I just hate that I am at this point in my life. I think of H and then I think of OW, and I think what makes him feel he needs her?