S, Take things day by day and keep your expectations at zero. Your h is beating himself up over the infidelity and he's got a lot of guilt and shame for what he's done to you and your family. I would suggest that the C sessions continue and just allow your h to lead for a bit.
I'm hoping and praying that your h will pull himself together and realize what a lucky man he is to have you in his corner.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
