It was interesting that W latched on to her 2 year old son and was all over this kid. I really felt like saying to her "If you came home we could have another one of those" but of course I didn't.
Hi, Imageer, You just made me laugh out loud! My H and I don't have kids, primarily due to my feelings about the prospect (kids scare me! Although I like babies...as long as they are happy!). I was asked shortly after the bomb whether I thought my H had gotten involved with someone else (much younger) because he wanted kids, but I explained that every time we had ever discussed it, he had been pretty neutral about the issue, and had NEVER indicated that he really wanted them, and in fact, had said (maybe 6 months before OW came onto scene) that he wouldn't want to have them now, given that he is in his mid-40s, and really isn't keen on the whole paying-for-college-while-he's-retirement-age thing. So no, I don't think that's why. Although I think OW does want them. I keep expecting her to turn up pregnant one of these days.
Anyway, sorry, I'm really bad about hijacking, but you sound like you're doing well! I have been impressed with your superhero DB skills! Yes, patience x 1000000....
Peace and blessings, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1