LE - Maybe just let her lead all R talks if there are to be any, just reasssure, empaphise and listen. It will hurt buddy, be real horrible, but I still believe you would go back.
I don't understand this thread title ? Are you now trying to convince yourself your done ?
FWIW and from following along. I do not think your done, I think your growing impatient and your seeing the pain in your kids and feeling such pain yourself that you are no looking to escape. The thing is, your W is also seeing the kids, that you are a great dad and are a great guy whilst feeling her own pain and she is now having doubts. Time to step up to the plate sir, really man it up and be her rock.
Also, any arguments with OM, her mind will question what she is doing, so be careful when she does come to you after a squabble. I remember when I met mercdriver32 and was happy as anything, once it ended I did start to think more of my W, it's what we do when we are lonely I think.
