Wow, Jeff, I am so impressed with how far you've come! You rock!

Your edits sound great! While it's still an important issue, I think it was good to delete the part about ML - I had forgotten that side of it was/is a "touchy" subject for your W.

I have to admit, the "ILY" kinda blew me away, too, when I first read it, but I think that's because when I asked if you loved her, it was hard for you to answer. Hmmm....After giving it thought and writing down the positives you actually do still see in your W, perhaps it softened ya a bit towards her? ;\) Anyhow, I see nothing wrong with the ILY. JMO.

You've done and are doing an awesome job!

(((((Jeff)))))

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell