Hi everyone, I don't know if anyone ha experience with this - I am divorced - I have joint custody and my kids live with their mother, besides the weekend when they usually stay with me - The last month I have been away for work and I learned from my daughter that my son(6) went to football game with OM - just the 2 of them. This freaked me out - I never met or talked to this guy, besides that those are activity that I care to do with my kids and I don't like what is happening - I talked about it to ex W I said I don't want this guy to hang around my kids without her - she said I am unreasonable and controlling - I tried to call OM, I left a couple of message to the answer machine, saying that it was a friendly call but there are few things I need to clarify with him - he didn't answers and said through ex W that it doesn't want to talk to me - but because I insist is going to meet me when I'll be back - but for now is not going to talk to me at phone. Tomorrow I am going to contact a lawyer - something that I should have done long ago - and check with him my rights, but any experience form you guys is unbelievable welcome - I am very lonely in this - please help - any advise is welcome.