OK! Here it is updated. I split the difference on Lisa suggesting about "physical" stuff. I left in the hugs, and deleted the ML. I left the beginning as it was. She can choose to see that negatively, but I think it is important to explain why this is a letter. I got rid of the economy comment, it didn't fit at all!
((((((Essie)))))) Peaceful? I don't know if that's the word I'd use. But, I am satisfied that this is the right thing to do. I can't control her reaction, but I am ready for it.
I really appreciate the time that so many of you put into reading that letter, over and over, and making so many thoughtful and useful suggestions. I know that took a lot of time, and I wish I could do more than just say, "Thanks!"
I'm pretty sure tomorrow is not the day, W is still pretty sick, and I don't think it would be fair to either one of us to give it to her when she is in that condition. (Not English "sick", Lisa, Ali, naej, and any other "English" speakers! Poorly, for you!)
