I think my goals for now are moving out for me. Getting settled in the single life.
I have asked H for mediation about a month ago, I got no answer. So for a little while I need to save money for a lawyer to start the process.
My goal is to really let myself be happy, find some one to be happy with ( i know in time) just stop and enjoy life. Get rid of the sadness and replace it with happiness for thats what i and everyone else deserves.
Its been difficult to pack with h around since OW is away, but she must be home today for he went out at 11am to do payroll and its now close to midnight. I am tired of being played a fool by H.
but that needs and will stop, soon in a matter of days...and thanks I do feel good..thanks for noticing
hugs bear
Last edited by phbear316; 11/17/0804:42 AM.
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce