God grant me the patience and the strength...9

[theotherhalf]

New thread, whoo the old one seemed long and drawn out...hopefully this next one will bring some positives my way.

MWG, (from the last thread),
I really am leaving him alone. I really am just going with the flow right now. No pressure, no questions, no initiating, not asking much of him, just really enjoying his time here the best I can under the circumstances. The question the other night about him remembering stuff was really just an out of the blue question with no alterurer motive, and it ended there.

Had a good weekend. H is still here. They got the truck tore apart but now have to find the part. H is being very kind and respective. Even with his mood showing underneath at times.

H and I worked on the combine in am Sat. It really is different how well we've been working together lately. H still has little patience but it looks as if he's trying to find more with me. We finished combining later in the day. He combined, I hauled. Glad that is done before the snow really flies. Today we worked on our neighbors. Again I hauled. (:)So proud of myself)

Last night BIL was over. Sat in the basement with the guys and reminised about old times. They pretty much did all the talking. I just listened mostly. Then the subject got on life and what they wished they would/could have done. H again went to talking about someday moving out of state. I just listened for a bit then went upstairs as I did not want to hear it and was afraid I'd cry, and the best way sometimes for me to keep my mouth shut is to walk away. H came up right away and asked me if I was coming back down. I said, not if your going to keep talking about moving away. He said, "Oh, I'm not going anywhere, I'm just talking". I left it at that and did go back down. Nothing more was said.

All in all it was a good weekend. D17 and H even had some quality time together. So all went really well. Hope your's all went good too!
TOH