Im dissapointed in him for not realizing what is going with us, worried that things aren't going to change, and scared that one day I will be really alone with no "partner"
(((Tal)))
I so understand where you're coming from, Tal. But I am sad to say that it is all too common with we males of the species -- we're often woefully behind in recognizing the situation of our relationship with a woman. Usually dangerously so. And while I wonder why you ladies seem reluctant to cut the clueless some slack, I also wonder if even half of us deserve some slack.
So while I am acutely feeling your pain in how stupid your H seems to be, I am also feeing a bit of compassion for his ignorance. I wish, for both your sakes, he would wake up and smell the coffee.
Originally Posted By: Dr LOve
You are not being "selfish". Everyone deserves to be happy
I agree with the former, Doc. But I take issue with the latter. Everyone deserves to pursue happiness, not necessarily catch it. And certainly not at the expense of anyone else.
