Is this worth saving, or am I only fooling myself?

[faithrunner]

Hi Dash, I'm sorry you had such a rough afternoon. I wanted to comment that my H has terrible guilt and remorse, and it doesn't change a darn thing! It's just another form of the fog babble that T2L was telling you about. He has even started writing in emails to my family,"I feel like such a failure." I want to shake him and say "so don't be one!" WAS have their heads on totally backwards. And, I think they love to say they're done with us for two reasons, to end the conversation and to convince themselves.