k--Good and bad. Took them to church last night. That was good. We went to look at guitars. D wants to be the next Taylor Swift. What country girl under 18 doesn't, or Miley Cyrus I guess. That was fun. Sad to take them back. S cried, D cried, I cried, W cried and invited my in to stay for dinner so I 180'd and said "Yes."
W said trouble with her and OM. They were supposed to go to football game today and instead she said take me home. Guilt is killing her I guess. She said she had a moment of reality in the car like "what am I doing here, I don't know this guy?" I am just a typical DAM. I have to have her say something and then take 24 hours to figure out what the point of it all is.
I asked her about upcoming court date and asked some questions about settlement. Threw a curveball her way and she kind of shut down. DAM at work again.
M42 S12/D9 T17/M12 Bomb 1 3/22/06 Bomb 2 7/11/08 Bomb 3 7/31/08 W Filed 8/1/08 D granted 12/17/08 D Finalized 1/29/09
A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
LE - Maybe just let her lead all R talks if there are to be any, just reasssure, empaphise and listen. It will hurt buddy, be real horrible, but I still believe you would go back.
I don't understand this thread title ? Are you now trying to convince yourself your done ?
FWIW and from following along. I do not think your done, I think your growing impatient and your seeing the pain in your kids and feeling such pain yourself that you are no looking to escape. The thing is, your W is also seeing the kids, that you are a great dad and are a great guy whilst feeling her own pain and she is now having doubts. Time to step up to the plate sir, really man it up and be her rock.
Also, any arguments with OM, her mind will question what she is doing, so be careful when she does come to you after a squabble. I remember when I met mercdriver32 and was happy as anything, once it ended I did start to think more of my W, it's what we do when we are lonely I think.
