I've been thinking a lot lately that this situation may suck for us but at the same time, it gives us time to grow and learn in ways that we probably would not have otherwise. I know that I have become stronger, more confident and more mature since this happened. I'm also almost debt free and better financially. I wonder if it hadn't happened, if I would still be the same person I was 2 years ago.
I feel the same way. The dynamic between us was hurting both of us.
