Staying present in my life

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I don't think she knows what she wants

I think your Ws actions scream "I don't know what I want". It will probably take a while for her to figure that out.

I've been thinking a lot lately that this situation may suck for us but at the same time, it gives us time to grow and learn in ways that we probably would not have otherwise. I know that I have become stronger, more confident and more mature since this happened. I'm also almost debt free and better financially. I wonder if it hadn't happened, if I would still be the same person I was 2 years ago.