Hi Belle, nothing that hurts is trivial. I agree about the communication issues. Lots of times I feel like it is a power play of some sorts. They somehow expect us to be there always, yet at times ration communication.
Once again, I think the DB solution is to take the high road and ignore the comments. Return his calls cheerfully.
So far your increased communication has paid off. At least you are talking now. And he's gets frusterated when you aren't talking to him! That is a change from before!
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!