It's a Marathon, Not a Sprint, to Happy...

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Bobbi,
I'm sorry to hear all of this, it must have been a very very hard few hours of yuor life and no wonder you are frustrated and hurt.. like you said, why come back then? I guess he wanted to try/wasnt sure/doesnt know what he wants. But it must have been horrible, so you have my sympathy there.

I think its interesting that he said he cant buy anything to make him happy, or get stuff to.. he is admitting really, that it isnt YOU as such, just him. He feels empty inside right. And that was what my ex said. He wasnt happy. Men externalise. When they dont feel happy, they want to change things, or get new stuff. He's tried changing things and getting new stuff and he still isnt happy. Sadly, he needs to get to the bottom of his issues and stop drinking. He needs to go for C hey.

I forget, did you guys discuss that at all? Or wont he go?

Thinking of you,
Ali x