Onward and Upward - Part 8!

[glamgirl]

BM thanks so much. We did have a good day yesterday and I can only hope it gets better or at least continues.

I thought I would here from h today, but nothing. He did say we was going to be busy moving, but he also said he would call if he found a car.

He is car shopping and said he wants me to see it first before he buys. This is good, since in the past he would just say I bought a new vehicle.

H said he would be here tomorrow around 10am.

[dl443322]

Well, I think he was just really busy. That is a positive that he wants you to look at the car first.

Keep doing what you are doing. No pressure. No expectations, just keep it nice and light.

[MidwesternGirl]

GG:

I agree lots of positives here.

He moved closer to you which I am was exhausting for him since he did the moving, and then to go car shopping???? I think the fact he wants you in on the decision making with regard to the car is very positive.

[Maya44]

What a great date GG! I'm glad the 2 of you worked things out and it went very well!

[TRUSTING]

I'm impressed with your sitch.

[Truelove]

Hi glamgirl,
Your sitch sounds positive. Keep up the good work. Take care.

[happynow]

Hi Glam,

I've been trying to do some catch up with everyone's thread, it just takes time.

Sounds like there are so many positives in your sitch, keep the faith!

((((HUGS)))

[SirPrizeMe]

Hey GG, you know what would be helpful? if you would re-post a summary of where you've been how long it has taken, etc.

I have a theory that the people who get back together are the ones with patience. Most people just give up too quickly. I had a friend who, 2 months after marital trouble struck, after 14 years of marriage, just said "well, if you're not in love with me now, then let's just get divorced!" and sure enough, that is where she is now.

Instant satisfaction, that is what we are bred on these days. These days we think - if I am not happy today, tomorrow or next week, well then I need to move on to greener pastures.

[Maya44]

Hey GG! Hope your Monday is starting off to be a good one!

[glamgirl]

Thanks everyone. So far all is good. I will post when I get a chance. H said he would be here around 1pm. I am on lunch break.

H did get a little testy last night. Very minor. I would just like some advice on how to handle the little things, since I do believe it's really NOT one big thing that happens but rather the little stuff that a person finally just says enough is enough and since I am in this for the long haul I would like to know how I could do better.

Sirprize that sounds great. Kind of like a timeline. Yes it's important especially for those that are first finding themselves here that the m won't be fixed in a day or a month more like years. My h has been gone 2+ years.

I will see what I can put together. I am on this huge project for my work and have to present to the executives this week, so have a ton of stress on me too at the moment.

Hope all are doing good!