I am sorry Bbj. What was obvious to you and all of us seems it has become obvious to him. He wants excitement and cant get it anywhere. You cant help him. You are right. I am afraid what Woog has been telling you all along is the only way. He needs to see someone that can professionaly guide him out of this. He has a broken "navigator", he is lost.
My H told me the same thing today when I asked if he knows why he left originally. He said he wasnt happy and he couldnt be happy with us. It took him 8 months (he says) to figure out that happy included me and the kids and he was looking for it at the wrong places. If you love him, you need to let him do it alone, "let him go" and be patient. xxx K
