Working on a friendship

[Belle]

I know my problems are trivial, but I have to vent and say I hate it when my H calls and doesn't leave a message.

The last time he was doing that I didn't call him back and then he brought it up after a week or so "I called you last week" and I said "you didn't leave a message" and he said "Yeah, but you knew I called"...At that time he said he would leave a message from now on....

It's so frustrating because it's so hard to reach him. He is a huge flake when it comes to his phone. He leaves the ringer off -doesn't hear it and most times doesn't call back for a day or so.

I sent him a text last week, asking him a question, and when he called the next day I asked him if he got it and he said "No".

FLAKE! He used to ask me how to check his text messages, so I guess I shouldn't expect much.

So now he just called and didn't leave a message.

I ALWAYS answer my phone. I did't answer for a couple of weeks when he would call and there was really no reaction other than the conversation above.

So I have been answering it again and I guess resulted in something good - we've been talking a lot more. I don't know if that's just coincidence though.

I guess I shouldn't make such a big deal of this calling thing. But maybe I am making a big deal because I feel like I'm at his service for support and friendship, yet I'm not sure if he'd be there if I needed him.....

Women are attracted to strong, dominant men. And I feel like and I am the strong one here........