Well this friend of mine is just too sweet for her own good, she's always trying to please everybody and she's very insecure. She's not happy with herself in many ways. She was a good friend to me when I needed a good friend, but now she seems to (like you said BND) be 'sucking the life out of me'. I guess sometimes it is what it is.
H not being very involved with ow's grief....well, he didn't know her grandma for that long and I suppose it's quite natural if someone dies in their sleep at 80 years of age...I think that qualifies for having had a good and long life.
I was just greatful that he called me back and helped me out a bit. I think since a long time, I 'needed' him to do that. I think that he was glad to help me. He defends me as you would any loved one. I'm just glad we still have that.
So I got yet ANOTHER TM from that friend, saying it was her fault and she shouldn't have listened to a little girl etc. I sent a TM back saying 'D9 will apologize to you for her dramatics, I do not wish to discuss anything further.'
It has been quiet ever since. I have noticed that the quiet is good for me. Sometimes friendships become destructive and obsessive. I do not want that.
Thanks guys xxx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
