Worse before Better?

[Sophie]

It's Sunday here....I slept late...again, I love Lunesta.

Get this...

S10, on his own, called H to check that H was coming over to watch the football games. (Kids don't know anything about the D papers, and we've been watching games mostly here, sometimes at H's house.)

H said, sure...I'll be over around 12:30.

H told S10 that he just got up and it 11:45pm....

H said "it'd be nice to go to Clearwater...(that's our neighborhood restaurant) but I doubt that can happen".

S10 said, 'YEA let's go'!


I hope this gives a glimpse into how shocked I was to get papers at this time as we have been hanging out so easily and regularly.

Except for lack of finances, H has had a comfortable time with the kids and dealing with me....'cause I just don't care what H wants to do. Dropping the need to control all events was a huge 180 for me...as I was raised, and trained, to be a controlling person.

I am going to do what I have to do in my day, with my work, cleaning the house etc....

I would think H would have just asked S10 if he wanted to go back to his place to watch football.

I suppose if it gets uncomfortable enought, he will do that.

I'll keep you posted....