I don't post much here any more.But I do read your posts.Most of you have good people helping you.It is nice to have a sounding board and friends to help when your moving on.
I have seen is quit a few post here about how your life is not as good as the ex's.How they have all the money,new love,ect....
I see this as compairing your life and thinking it just doesn't add up to equal.Like they got lucky and you ran out of luck.Well thats just not true.They had a headstart.Your timeline is different.
I have seen where some have said that time doesn't heal all wounds.Well you got that right in part.It's not time alone that heals.It's doing the work.What is that work?
Is it getting a new partner? No that is a byproduct of doing the work.
Is it getting a new job? No.That could ease the money sitch.But it won't make you any happier.
Is it getting a new place to live? No but it is nice to have a place you picked out that is just right for you.
Is it finding a new hobby? No.But it does make the days more fun.
Is it finding a whole new set of friends? No but it helps to have someone to go to when you need to talk.
So what is it that heals the pain.It could be all of the above and learning to love yourself.You can lose everything you have but you still have yourself.What is it that you love about yourself.
At first I hated to be alone.I come from a huge family.I just wasn't used to it.
Now I'm just as content being alone as I am in a crowd.
Learn to love yourself and you will always be loved.
Later Friends Briget
The grass is always greener over the septic tank... Erma Bombeck
Treat hate with Love... DR. Martin Luther King
