New Here-From Newcomers- hoping for more input...

[optimistwife]

Thanks Daisy.
It is so nice to have someone give advice from the other side. What do we call you? A DB winner? Although there are so many who 'won' themselves even though they didn't reclaim their marriage.

I do have to focus on just how far I've come. In thinking back to August- we barely saw each other, communication was awkward- a brief Hi and goodnight daily. I was on pin and needles around him. November- we go back and forth to each others places to visit. We occasionally ML, he opens up more about what his plans are (still no 'our' plans...)

There are still bumps of new disappointment along the way, and you are right. They set me much farther back than they should. I should really re-read my own posts from when I started here every now and then... The big picture!