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Kel, my S25 will be in Florida all next week for work. Not sure if I know what part of your state. He works with robotics and will be there to help set some stuff up.


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Well, just talked to H. I heard some shots, but it was not him. He is on his way home. Had to check a couple of our plow accounts - Churches that need clear sidewalks etc. for service this am.

We'll see how this am goes. Sounded like H and not the alien. Sure hope so.


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I know I know I know. Hey I actually have one that fits that bill but he is only 22. Not too young for you is it? LOL

Did you go get any books?

Yes I did get my hair cut. Thanks for the comment. I got it stacked in the back. H didn't even notice then said it looked "choppy". Even the littlest thing they know how to get to you. But I'm not going to let him get to me anymore. I did a little last night but that is just it, no more. Still haven't figured out quite what it all means, but it is how I feel.

Hope, he DOES love you. That is part of the problem. It's really hard to fight the fight of still loving them when they are so continuously horrible. So love Hope. That is all you can do honey. Some days I think the "peeks" are just their way of holding on, or keeping us holding on.

One of the things i did years ago when we had a really bad bad patch, (we were both using the D word almost daily) was to finally say to both of us, unless we are really going to do it, that word CAN'T be used anymore. It helped a little. The fighting and whatnot slowed. Do you know what I just realized? That word has never been used again. Not in 9 years, and not even now. I'm done, I don't want to be with you anymore, and all of that, but no D word. Things that make you go Hmmmm........

We all love you Hope, and we know what a special person you are.
You do so much for all of us. Lean, it's your turn.


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Where is son going to be?

Hope it is good h but keep guard up for the alien.

No didn't notice I locked over here. I'll start another one. I locked on newcomers yesterday (well I locked a bunch over there yesterday playing with Tomato).


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My H is starting to sound like the h and not (always) the alien, too.

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yup, but they will go back and forth for a long time. The alien actually reappeared last night in the middle of a physical encounter. Boy that was FUN!!!! Still seems to be hanging around this morning although calm.


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That's great Poet. I think maybe we are all on the same cycle.

Well it was nice H that came home. AND he apologized to me for his behavior yesterday.

So, we wll see shat king of day we have. It is still snowing and he will be hunting, so he'll be in and out. I'm going to be determined to have a good day.

Kel, thanks for the good advice. As always you say just the thing that I need to hear. I'll cheer up now and get back into my positive attitude.

I did get a couple of books yesterday. The first 2 from the twilight series. Haven't started to ready yet, but hope to maybe later today.


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Cool let me know how they are.


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didn't I say something about our H's on the same cycle about a week or so ago? LOL. You are probably right. Hope, lets step off the rollercoaster together for a while.


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Hey Hope, sorry the alien returned after the hunting on Saturday. Seems like at least the alien is being seen less and less. I understand the whole I am tired thing. I just feel worn out from the stress that H is causing me.
Wow snow, so much you need to get it moved wow! I am so wanting warm, not looking very good this week for us in the 50's. Yesterday wasn't bad at all I had on long underwear and was sweating part of the time.

Hope you have a good Monday morning! Enjoy your coffee.


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