How did your evening out with friends go last night? Where you able to get your sitch out of your mind for a couple of hours? If you did great for you. If not, will that is only normal. Mine is always there in the back of my mind.
You do not know why OW was at H house. Maybe he is trying to explain to her what is going on. Maybe OW is fighting for his attentions like you are. Maybe, Maybe, Maybe.
We do not know what is happening. The OW is just another bunker that you have to get around to get to the green. You have gotten by bunkers before and there is no reason why you cannot get by this one. This bunker will still come up on the next number of holes, ignore it and shoot for the green.
You need to play your game. Do not let OW or H make-up the rules. Do not play their game. Play yours. Every good game plan has to be flexible. Some times you have to change your strategies to achieve your goals.
Sometime too much information is a bad thing, especially if it is bad intelligence. It can cloud up the other issues that are that are more important to you plan. It is just another distraction. You are doing will.
Keep your sprites up. This is just one more hazard to get by.