Another wife hit by the bomb #3

[Tawnya]

{{{Sophie}}} Thank you so much for those wise words..I appreciate them so much..for someone who is a "math person"..you certainly have a way with words for me You know, I hadn't thought of that "redirecting my thoughts toward something else" philosophy before..I hope the next time this comes up I don't laugh thinking of what you said..it made me think of the Charlie Brown teacher "wah wah wah wah"..LOL..thank you I hope you are doing well yourself!!

{{{Love}}} Ahh..thank you..I do need to forgive myself..it seems I haven't totally done that yet..as I woke up too early this morning and had this on my mind Annoying, cause I love my sleep I know what you mean about the 12 yo's having to comfort us and you must be doing something right too..and THANK YOU very much for saying I was a pinnacle of strength..I'll hang onto that phrase today for sure..

I think, I dunno..after talking with my son, I just felt more relieved knowing that we would really be okay and, Beth (Bettou) told me some stuff I didn't know about alimony and things like that..so, in all honesty, I think hub is in for a shock when he goes tomorrow..I think he figures once the D would be final, he'd just have to do child support and that's it..but not the case..plus, in my state, we have a year waiting period..so I'm not as freaked out about him consulting a lawyer yet..

Thank you both for your kind words and what a great way to start my day

Tawnya