Thanks for the update Login. Sorry for the lack of updating on mine...there haven't been any significant changes in my sitch. Overall, it's good, I'm finding it easier to let go of expectations to some degree. Still need to work on boundaries and consequences, but overall, I'm happy and lucky to be where I am.
FWIW, I don't think you (or any of us) should settle for a cold, passionless marriage. One thing I've noticed in this whole process: there's almost always another way to look at things, more choices to make than you might think. The whole 'if you don't like where you're heading, change your direction' concept. So, if you don't like where you are, what are you thinking about doing?
