We've been married 21 years next month. We have four children, the youngest is 16. I tried to have some kind of physical contact with him tonight and it has ended in a big fight. He now tells me he doesn't want me anymore sexually because I had sex with another man without a condom and that thought makes him sick. It didn't make him sick the two years after the affair, just within the past year or so he's decided this is sick. I can't be married like this, and I, at this point, can't see things working out, now I don't know if I can get over his rejection of me. We get along for the most part but there isnt' a marriage here. Thanks all of you for your advice, I'll keep reading. :-)
