Hey Red: you are right, we are on the same wavelength!
It is very hard when we have done so much work on changing, and our H's have not even started. I think that is why piecing is so difficult. Regardless of that, remember this...only you can say when you are done.
Thinking out loud is not a bad thing, either. I personally find that sometimes just writing, or typing, or posting for input gives us a sense of perspective that we might not otherwise have had. I know many times its just about getting it out on paper rather than keeping it bottled up that helps us all get through this.
(((Red)))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
