Another wife hit by the bomb #3

[lovehimso]

Hi Tawnya, just gettin' caught up.

I'm totally in the wrong for sure and I'm well aware that the 2 x 4's should be coming fast and furious..I'm tweaked and I let it show..the bad side of me for sure..the old me has not died yet

No 2 x 4's coming from me. I'll remind you of the advice you gave me: forgive yourself (even if no one else does). You're right, the "old you" has not completely died yet. But she will, and hopefully when she does, your H will wise up and take notice.

Sigh..it turned out to be a really good convo because my son and I always get along really well and I feel better with the truth being out there. He will come to me and tell me if he's upset or scared or mad..we've always had that kind of relationship...

You obviously are doing something right with your son. What a wise soul at only 12 years old. My D12 said some very similar things to me when the s*** hit the fan here. I just felt bad that here's this 12 year old kid having to comfort her mother when her daddy moves out and has a girlfriend.

What a day! LOL..but we ended it well..went to blockbuster to get yet another game..Call of Duty (whatever number we are up to now...) and then went to Starbucks and got a yummy carmel apple cider and some lemon pound cake..I had been really good, but figured what the heck..LOL..son got his favorite chai tea latte and some pound cake..so we had fun and laughed some..so it ended well

You amaze me, Tawnya. You are a pinnacle of strength. If my H told me he had hired a lawyer I don't think I would have been able to go out for coffee that night! I would probably be curled up in a ball on my bed, begging God to make the nightmare end. That you were able to pick yourself up after hearing that and after dealing with your H and then your son, and go do something positive, says a lot about you. You'll make it through this, no matter how it turns out. You inspire me!

Well, I keep saying to myself that I am going to turn off the laptop and absorb myself in some mindless tv show, but somehow I'm not able to keep away from the boards tonight.

If I don't "see" ya tomorrow, hope you have a great Sunday!