NC, I know that your faith is strong. Just turn it over to him. That's all you can do. Don't let her get under your skin. She has a way of doing that, doesn't she?
As far as the health insurance goes, I don't think I would keep her on your policy. Would that make you liable for medical bills for her? Something definitely to discuss with your L. She wanted to be Ms. Independent, show her what independence all about. You will no longer be responsible for her, just those two wonderful little boys.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon