Yours too?!? My W used to get on my case for not having my act together, for forgetting things she swore she had already told me. In the first part of our M she even thought it was "cute" -- called me her little "absent-minded professor" once. But somewhere along the line that just started to grate on her, as she takes those kinds of things very personal.
But since the separation I've watched as she begins to lose control. Oh, she puts up a good act, but I recognize now the exasperation she expresses at realizing she's forgotten something important. The shoe is now on the other foot, and she forgets who she said what to ... and what she said to who.
