I feel the same the same way my last 11 years were a sham. Reckon that's a common feeling. Well get over it.
You're right - she is game playing and has been for ages.
Hpw much of this crap are you going to take ? Is the situation moving towards a desireable resolution ? she is lying she is chearing and she has no remorse or consideration of you or your marriage.
You have to get the flock out of there and have nothing to do with her. It's probably the only way she is going to get a big enough jolt for her to see things in a clearer light.
