Frank, don't try to rationalize her when she in clearly irrational. (I'm just as guilty of that as you are)
I wonder where she sees herself in 5 years. She probably sees some idealistic happily ever after situation but reality is probably closer to broke, depressed and alone.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford