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M, I'd suggest looking at it as something that could possibly be good for your son and for that I think it would be a good thing. I would agree, though, that having expectations, esp. as he MARRIED OW, would not be wise.

Invite over seems a little heavy. Why not send a card or a text or something? Then he might feel safe contacting you. Then maybe you can open the door a little wider if things seem to be comfortable.