Your wife has gone back to the role of child, and she has cast you as her Daddy. You support her financially and provide comfort to her so she can go out in the world and date and love....somebody else. And our Daddies are fine with it. But our husbands are not fine with it. You need to stop thinking of her as your wife. She is not adult enough to be a wife. She is a child. When you get done fighting for her you might just realize that the prize the winner gets here is no prize at all.