Well, progress but not in the right direction. She got a lawyer and started demanding documents from me. So I need to play the game and get one myself. :-( She wants to stay in the house until the kids are out of school in the summer and then deal with stuff but that would put us close to 10 years which might cause me to have to pay spouse support for life. So I need to get a lawyer and have him file paperwork that will start the clock now rather than later. I don't do anything more, just get the clock started.
I still don't think the reality has hit her that what she has here will be all gone. She plays the game so much that she doesn't have any time to allow it to sink in. Once we have to move out and she can't sit and play all day it will hit her.
