no expectations 9

[peacetoday]

Thanks for stopping by Trusting and SH

I left a VM this am for him
just kind of to clear the air for my part in our argument last night..I mentioned on VM how I can understand where he is coming from
and
that we will find an agreement that we are both happy with
and
that we can only talk D on phone when kids are out of house

then H came tonight
seemed very depressed-- lost
he mentioned that I know we cant talk about it
but our settlements are not too far apart
then I switched subject he talked about his work issues and his new health issues
I felt so bad for him..he just has no clue that HE is the problem
ANYWAY--HE IS SOMETIMES draining to listen to as he looks so very depressed..he reeks of it..

Thnak you trusting..I often read your threads and I know you understand
SH so nice for you to stop by hope you are well
and yes I believe my H depression and lack of control are affecting his ability to be there for kids

Well I am ok..glad H and I are friends again and now Im off dancing...
peace