I wouldn't want to be court ordered into anything, but if you do then make the best of it. I am always amazed at how the courts can rule your life once they get involved.

Coffee and chocolate sound good, not so much the Scotch. Time out enjoying the music sounds nice. Not having to reflect upon what once was.

At least you are still thankful.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"