H just came to pick up the kids for their overnight tonight. Doesn't say hello to me or the kids when he comes, made several grumpy comments and then left. Looked gray again like he does lately. I felt not really anything, just thought to myself what a grumpy guy he is, not like I used to wondering if I had done something or whatever. I didn't let it bother me at all. Just maybe relief he's out of my life? Karen