((((LIs))) so sorry what your w did, hope that it doesnt mess up you and S time. so glad you changed your password. its really cold here tonite, gonna be in the 20's yuck, i feel better knowing you are closer and in the states. dream well my friend, talk later!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
One of the EGF also has a vacation property where we have our. This is the EGF that is D with no k's.
Well she stopped over last night. Asked if S13 and I wanted to borrow golf clubs and wanted me to help her put her vehicle in garage. Today, s13 gets a text from W - are we taking EGF to airport? WHATEVER.
She didn't ask and I certainly didn't offer. Anyway S13 and I were out and about. I feel no obligation to EGF who has NO IDEA that she has in anyway assisted in this.
but ok now.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
(((Lost))) don't let a visit from a tart and a text from your W ruin your fun. Just let it roll off your back.
Have you talked to your DD's? Make sure you do, me thinks W might use this "girl time" to do some damage control with them and sway them to the DARKSIDE.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I may need some help with the question that you and Kat posed to me. Any suggestions?
Hows things in Phx?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
As for the question, I am struggling with my own boundaries since reconfirming that the A is still active. I will give it some thought.
(((Lost))) only if you have a chance. Don't worry about it. I'm just of the opinion whatever happens, happens. I just have no control over it and I'm just so tired of trying anymore.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Hey all. Just sitting in Barnes & Noble having a latte. Debating... with myself.
Am picking up The Love Dare. BUT also came across another book - deciding to D. It is a book that explores the decision process. From what I scanned, there are good case studies of folks that have S and what happened to bring them back together as well as others that ultimately D.
Debating whether to get it or not. Have been doing a lot of thinking (when S13 and I have not been out and about) and I have to be realistic. D is NOT what I want and I have continuously told W this (last time was last Tuesday). Will getting this book hurt my resolve? Thoughts?
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
but ok now.